Ep 065 The Fail Coach with Miha Matievski

Apr 26, 2020

MIHA MATIEVSKi

In 2009, Miha had four companies go bankrupt overnight: landing him $5 million in debt. Contemplating suicide to escape the pain as he looked over the balcony, he had a life-saving AH-HA moment. He realized that failure was a normal part of life: admitting to himself that he failed and to recognize he needed to stop blaming others and circumstances. This was the turning point when he made a choice to learn from his failures so he could do things differently in the future and to help others. Since then, he has climbed back to create a business and scaling it to 8 figures in less than a year. His life mission is to help people develop a healthy relationship with failure. Especially entrepreneurs.

this is a longer than usual podcast, but I hope you find value in it and I hope it blows your mind. In this podcast you will hear:

listen to what happens when I completely blow the pronunciation of his last name, and how I want to restart and hear his answer
what would happen if you didn’t have to always be perfect and always get things right?
the problem with the failure is the emotions that go along with it
how he reinvented himself and rebuilt himself
from vacation to meet-ups to the magical moment that changed everything
how did he discover the tag fail coach
how marketers told him not to do what he was doing and how he decided to do it anyway
what every story shares in common
understanding when do we fail and the comfort zone
hear a new perspective on what failure means
the importance of tweaking the recipe
vulnerability,being seen and the fact that no one cares
comfort zones
the 3 reasons we fail
from emotions to logic
the importance of mindfulness and the 4 steps to emotional intelligence
feel the moment our conversation moves from head to heart
regrets, fear and failing
going through the fear of change, looking at your inner demons and just doing it
everyday doing the things you are most scared of
The Gardener, the daily fight against the demons and how to win the battle
the importance of consistent behaviour
product, market, audience
a life of no problems is not a happy life???????
the worry tree, when to solve the problem and what can I do
coved-19, a new found failure having nothing to do with what you have done.
finding what you CAN do, not focusing on what you CAN’T do
building a business through know-like-trust and then listening to what they need
the difference between a success coach perspective and a fail coach perspective
what we can see when we accept failure?
hear me trying to move him out of his comfort zone and watch what happens
being comfortable with being uncomfortable
how to listen to the personal message life gives and not only the global message
the biggest failure he has had since he became a failure coach and not seeing the signs that it was over because of the emotions that blind us , and the pain and it’s reaction
how the desire for something we want gets in the way of the things that will give it to us
if we don’t pull the weeds from our garden, we will be destined to always experience the same failure in a different way
the intellectualization of our pain vs sitting with our pain and cleaning it out
our failure as a person and the hole it digs making it harder to get out of our pain
intellectual understanding followed by consistent follows absorption in the heart
a beautiful example of a man looking at his situation and speaking of the happiness in his life and yet opening up the possibility that perhaps there is something he does not see.
do the little things and do what you can with what you have